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It feels as though maintaining a reasonable level of mental health is particularly challenging right now, whether we're talking about clinical depression or just a general feeling of unease brought on by being bombarded with negative news on a much-more-than-daily basis. So a little self-care is rarely a bad ideaāand while this is in no way a clinical recommendation, I find that a good cry is often the best way to make myself feel a little better. Just as sad songs are often a comfort in dark times, so are sad movies often just the thing when a good cry is called for.
Some movies earn their tears honestly, while others are more manipulativeāthe ones sometimes dismissively called tearjerkers. Iām not sure how much it matters, though: Many of us are naturally suspicious of entertainment that moves us, but, like a good jump scare or thrilling action sequence, thereās skill, and art, to plucking at our emotional strings. Just thinking of some of these moviesāwhich are enough to make all but the most hard-hearted among you ugly cryāgets me feeling misty.
A warning though, before we proceed: it's hard to talk about what makes these movies weepy without getting into some spoilers. Proceed with caution.
Greta Lee plays Nora, whose family emigrated from South Korea to the United States when she was a child. Years later, and then over the course of several years, she reunites with childhood friend Hae Sung (Teo Yoo), forcing an examination of her life as it is, and as it might have been.
The crying bit: I'm not sure there's one particular moment here (this isn't a tearjerker), but the film's endingāwith its cumulative sense of love, loss, and roads not takenāpacks a powerful emotional punch. Just posting the trailer here made the tears start welling up in my eyes.
Where to stream: Paramount+, Digital rental
Minimalist Dogme 95-style filmmaking somehow meets Douglas Sirk-style melodrama, all mixed up in a stripped-down homage to the artificiality of the Old Hollywood musical. Starring none other than outrĆ© Icelandic singer Bjƶrk (who apparently had a terrible time making it), this is deeply strange, and strangely compelling, in its story of a Czech immigrant whoās forced into increasingly dire straits as she tries to get the money for a medical procedure that will save her sonās vision.
The crying bit: Bjƶrk and company create such a compelling (though bleak) fantasy world that the movieās ultra-dark denouement hits hard.
Where to stream: Digital rental
A family of sharecroppers in rural Louisiana, lead by Cicely Tyson and Paul Winfield, is tragically disrupted when Winfieldās Nathan Lee Morgan is arrested for having stolen a bit of food.
The crying bit: Sounder, the dog, is a relatively minor part of the film, and, though he does get injured, you neednāt fear any dog-related tragedies. This is one for which the tears really come when the family is reunited.
Where to stream: Prime Video, Peacock, Tubi
Bette Midler has never been so schmaltzy as in this movie charting the ups and downs of her lifelong friendship with Barbara Hershey, beginning way back when Midlerās character is played by Mayim Bialik. Though history hasnāt come to recognize Beaches as an all-time classic, there were a couple of years during which the haunting strains of āWind Beneath My Wingsā were utterly inescapable. Be warned, though: I listened to this soundtrack on repeat around the time this first came on TV, and Iām pretty sure it made me gay.
The crying bit: You can see the death scene coming from all the way down the beach, but only the hardest heart isnāt going to feel a twinge when C.C. and Hillary watch one final sunset.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Less a work of genius, perhaps, than a masterpiece of emotional manipulation, Love Story is a classic tearjerker in the finest tradition of the form. Love means never having to say youāre sorry, and I won't apologize for recommending this.
The crying bit: After weāve established the central coupleās meet-cute, opposites-attract relationship and marriage, weāre primed for tragedy when Oliver (Ryan OāNeal) learns that Jenny (Ali McGraw) is terminally ill, attempting to conceal the diagnosis from her (which was, apparently, a thing you could do circa 1970). Alas, this isnāt a movie about successful treatments and permanent remission.
Where to stream: Digital rental
A young suffragette (Greer Garson) breaks the stiff, stuffy, oh-so-British reserve of teacher Charles Edward Chipping (Robert Donat)
The crying bit: Following the death, in childbirth, of his beloved, Mr. Chips returns to the classroom, stiff upper lip fully starched. Itās clear heās lost not just his love, but also the joy in living sheād helped him discover.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Based on the James Baldwin novel and directed by Moonlightās Barry Jenkins, this is the tragic story of a young couple (played by KiKi Layne and Stephan James) torn apart by a false allegation and injustice.
The crying bit: Iām not sure that thereās a single moment here, and thatās to the non-linear movieās credit. Thereās a pervasive sense of sadness and injustice as weāre drawn deeply into the story of this couple. The most emotional moment is, perhaps, the moment near the end when Tish realizes that thereās no hope of undoing the injustice that landed Funny in jail.
Where to stream: Peacock, Starz, Digital rental
Steven Spielberg directs Whoopi Goldberg as the abused Celie, separated from her beloved sister at a young age in rural Georgia of the early 20th century. Itās a better adaptation of Alice Walkerās acclaimed novel than it is often given credit for.
The crying bit: The greatest heartbreaks come closer to the beginning than the end. And, though there are tearful moments throughout, the real catharsis comes when we finally feel like things finally (finally) start looking up for Miss Celie and company. Youāre invited to cry at the sad moments and the joyous conclusion.
Where to stream: Tubi, Digital rental
They used to call this sort of thing a āchick flick,ā as though the mere presence of women at the top of the cast list were enough to place a film in its own genre. Regardless, with the all-legend casting of Sally Field, Dolly Parton, Shirley MacLaine, Daryl Hannah, Olympia Dukakis, and Julia Roberts, this is the Avengers of movies set largely in a beauty salon.
The crying bit: The filmās death scene is gutting, but less so than Sally Fieldās graveside breakdown, both for its own emotive power and for her realization that sheās not alone. Somehow āTake a whack at Ouiser!ā is the filmās supreme moment of catharsis.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Another great film with women in the lead and a brilliant ensemble cast (including Ming-Na Wen, Rosalind Chao, Tamlyn Tomita, and Lauren Tom), The Joy Luck Club centers around a group of Chinese elders who gather to play Mahjong and trade stories that span generations.
The crying bit: There are plenty of emotional moments across the filmās many vignettes, but by far the most wrenching is the story of Suyuan Wooās escape from the Japanese invasion of China. Near death and at the end of her strength, sheās forced to abandon her twin daughters. The moment would, understandably, haunt Suuyan and color her relationship with her other daughter, June.
Where to stream: Hulu, Digital rental
Even if itās not flawless in its perspectives, Imitation of Life is as close to racial consciousness as Hollywood got in the 1950s, doing the original version of the film (from 1934) one better by shifting the focus away from single mother Lora Meredith (here played by Lana Turner) and toward Juanita Mooreās Annie Johnson and her light-skinned-to-the-point-of-passing daughter, Sarah Jane.
The crying bit: Their relationship having entirely broken down through the course of the film, mother and daughter never truly reconcile before Annieās untimely death. Itās the funeral, though, that clinches it, as Mahalia Jackson sings āTrouble of the Worldā while Sarah Jane falls on her motherās casket.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Barbara Stanwyck plays the titleās sassy mill workerās daughter, whose plans to better her own situation go consistently awry, leading to a deeply unhappy marriage. Eventually, she places all her hopes in her daughter, Laurel.
The crying bit: Circumstances lead Stella to believe that her daughterās only road to happiness is apart from the troubled mother. So, she forces Laurel away with cruel comments, then watches her daughterās marriage through a window, sadness and joy mingled in her expression.
Where to stream: Prime Video
Belying the unfair reputation that cartoons once had as goofy kidsā stuff, the ability of a Pixar movie to reduce grown people to tears is legendary.
The crying bit: The montage, early in the film, depicting Carl Fredricksenās life with his late wife, Ellie, and their inability to ever save up enough money for their dream trip, is gutting. Gutting. (Later thereās a talking dog, which helps.)
Where to stream: Disney+, Digital rental
Oh, hey, just Pixar again, here to make us cry over some damn computer generated toys.
The crying bit: You think itās the ending, but itās actually the moment when the toys, seemingly at the ends of their usefulness, make their peace with death (if living toys can truly ādieā) while on a conveyor belt leading to an incinerator. Yeah, itās also wistfully sad when Andy passes the toys along to Bonnie, saying goodbye to his childhood, but thatās like a gentle jab after getting hit over the head with a folding chair.
Where to stream: Disney+, Digital rental
The kindly Widow Tweed adopts an orphaned fox, Tod, while her neighbor, hunter Amos Blade, brings home a hound named Copper to be his new hunting dog. They become friends. Then they arenāt, and itās sad.
The crying bit: Oh, lord. We start out with a Bambi-esque death scene and, later, a heartbreaking abandonment. The emotional crux of the film is the bit about how Tod and Copper will āalways be friends forever.ā But fate has other ideas.
Where to stream: Disney+, Digital rental
A young boy (Tommy Kirk) has a lovely, special bond with the titular Labrador Retriever in Texas of the late 1860s.
The crying bit: Letās just say that Old Yeller doesnāt fare terribly well here. They made this movie for kids, if you can believe it.
Where to stream: Disney+, Digital rental
Ten-year-old Bastian Bux is an outcast (translated from movie parlance: a reader) who finds himself drawn into his new book rather literally, as he's gradually pulled into the story of warrior Atreus, on a quest to save The Childlike Empress from "The Nothing" in the world of Fantasia.
The crying bit: Atreyu's faithful steed, Artax, is overcome in the Swamp of Sadness. It's a genuinely powerful emotional moment, representing a low point for both Bastion and Atreyu.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Yeah, yeah, yeah, the 2018 Lady Gaga version is sad, too, but this earlier version is the template (we can't call it the original, since it's the second of four takes, and not the same general plot). Judy Garland stars alongside James Mason as one half of a Hollywood power coupleāexcept that her star is in the ascendant, while his is in substance-dependent decline.
The crying bit: Upon her return to the stage following her husband's death, Vicki announces herself as "Mrs. Norman Maine." A little awkward, perhaps, to modern eyes, but still rather stirring in context. It's also rather poignant that this was meant to be Judy Garland's big comeback, but inexplicably died at the box office.
Where to stream: Tubi, Digital rental
The John Green adaptation stars Shailene Woodley and Ansel Elgort as two teens who meet at a support group for cancer patients, before going on a whirlwind trip to Amsterdam to meet one of their favorite authors and find out why his last book doesn't really have an ending.
The crying bit: It's not entirely, nor unnecessarily, maudlin, but it's a movie about two kids with cancer, one of whom turns out to have a terminal diagnosis. Their first kiss is at the Anne Frank House. So, take your pick.
Where to stream: Disney+, Digital rental
Director David Lean is best known today for his epics: Lawrence of Arabia, A Passage to India, etc. But this early classic of his is every bit as impressive a work, even if the scale is much smaller. Laura is a respectable middle-class woman in a stable but dull marriage, while Alec is an idealistic doctor, also married with children. They start running into each other whenever Laura goes to a nearby town for a bit of shopping and, as their relationship and affections develop, each separation becomes more difficult.
The crying bit: It's what doesn't happen that breaks your heart here, as the final encounter between the two is interrupted and cut short.
Where to stream: Max, The Criterion Channel, Prime Video
The Disney/Pixar tear train has been running for a long timeāat least since Bambiāand Inside Out continues the tradition ably. Here we venture into the mind of 11-year-old Riley, processing her feelings about a family move via personifications of emotions with personalities of their own.
The crying bit: Bing Bong. Definitely Bing Bong. Oh, god, Bing Bong.
Where to stream: Disney+, Digital rental
In Cold War-era Maine, a giant alien robot becomes the focus of fear and paranoia from an American military who can only see his potential as a weapon.
The crying bit: Is is the moment when the Giant realizes that he can be what he chooses to be, saying āSupermanā as he sacrifices himself to save Hogarth and his other friends? Or the bit at the end when it appears that he didnāt die after all? I mean, itās definitely the first oneābut theyāre both incredibly emotional.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Titanicās extraordinary popularity has bred a certain cynicism about the movie, with discussion turning on the relative buoyancy of floating doors and the camp appeal of Billy Zane. Thereās still a brilliantly constructed old-school Hollywood epic here, of the kind they truly donāt make anymore. In theaters in 1997, the final scenes were typically drowned out (sorry, pun intended) by the sounds of sobbing audiencesāand time hasnāt entirely dulled that power.
The crying bit: She says that sheāll never let go. But she absolutely lets go. But then they meet again on the ship where dreams are born, and they look so young and pretty, and everyone claps. (Thank god they skipped the original ending.)
Where to stream: Paramount+, Prime Video
Baz Luhrmannās over-the-top, La BohĆØme-inspired jukebox musical about star-crossād lovers in turn-of-the-20th-century Paris was never going to have an entirely happy ending.
The crying bit: Once you see the blood on the handkerchief, you know how itās going to end. Iām not sure that consumption was nearly so elegant a way to go as the movies suggest, but, in this case, thereās so much spectacle and distraction that weāve almost forgotten the foreshadowing, setting up an ending that still manages to come as a bit of a shock.
Where to stream: Hulu, Apple TV+
New York-based Chinese-American writer Billi (Awkwafina) learns from her parents that her grandmother, diagnosed with lung cancer, has just months to live. Theyāve decided not to tell her, and are concerned that their Americanized daughter wonāt keep the secret if she travels to China to spend time with Nai Nai during her final days.
The crying bit: Itās not a maudlin movie, despite the subject matter, but the night, near the end of the film, when Nai Nai encourages Bill to live life on her own terms, got me. There are also tears to be had at the filmās surprisingly upbeat ending. Itās also sadder because itās all true.
Where to stream: Max, Digital rental
A theatre company travels to Laramie, Wyoming to meet with and interview residents in the aftermath of the murder of Matthew Shepard. Based on the same-named play, the film is a curious hybrid of cinema, theater, and documentary with a cast of recognizable names.
The crying bit: Being the story of the very real Matthew Shepard, this one cuts deeper than the more explicitly fictional narratives, and might be a bit much if youāre looking for some gentle catharsis. Still, thereās no question that itās a worthwhile and important watchāthe moment when a local gay resident (played by Bill Irwin) relates his emotions following a parade in Shepardās honor hits particularly hard.
Where to stream: Max, Digital rental
From the William Styron novel, we gradually learn the story of Polish immigrant Sophie Zawistowska, a Holocaust survivor who was faced with a particularly horrific choice, as the title suggests.
The crying bit: Near the end, we learn that Sophie had to choose between her two children upon entering Auschwitz.
Where to stream: Peacock, The Criterion Channel, Tubi, Crackle, Prime Video
A family drama elevated by some truly excellent performances, Ordinary People deals with the impact of tragedy on a family led by an increasingly emotionally distant mother (Mary Tyler Moore).
The crying bit: There are plenty of emotional scenes in this drama, but thereās a moment during a therapy session when Timothy Huttonās Conrad expresses his feelings over the sailing accident that killed his brother, admitting that he considers having survived his greatest failure, that really smacked me in the face.
Where to stream: Max, Digital rental
Michael B. Jordan plays the real-life attorney and activist Bryan Stevenson, here at the beginning of his career and representing the wrongfully convicted Walter McMillian (Jamie Foxx).
The crying bit: We know that the criminal justice system fails Black Americans more often than not, which makes the happy ending here (which, granted, only comes after McMillian serves multiple years on death row) a brief, but joyous moment.
Where to stream: Prime Video
QuvenzhanƩ Wallis plays Hushpuppy, who constructs an elaborate fantasy world around her Louisiana Bayou community and her ailing father.
The crying bit: Confronting the much-feared aurochs, Hushpuppy saves the people of her island in the face of her fatherās death, at which point she gives him one hell of a funeral.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Full story here:
Some movies earn their tears honestly, while others are more manipulativeāthe ones sometimes dismissively called tearjerkers. Iām not sure how much it matters, though: Many of us are naturally suspicious of entertainment that moves us, but, like a good jump scare or thrilling action sequence, thereās skill, and art, to plucking at our emotional strings. Just thinking of some of these moviesāwhich are enough to make all but the most hard-hearted among you ugly cryāgets me feeling misty.
A warning though, before we proceed: it's hard to talk about what makes these movies weepy without getting into some spoilers. Proceed with caution.
Past Lives (2023)
Greta Lee plays Nora, whose family emigrated from South Korea to the United States when she was a child. Years later, and then over the course of several years, she reunites with childhood friend Hae Sung (Teo Yoo), forcing an examination of her life as it is, and as it might have been.
The crying bit: I'm not sure there's one particular moment here (this isn't a tearjerker), but the film's endingāwith its cumulative sense of love, loss, and roads not takenāpacks a powerful emotional punch. Just posting the trailer here made the tears start welling up in my eyes.
Where to stream: Paramount+, Digital rental
Dancer in the Dark (2000)
Minimalist Dogme 95-style filmmaking somehow meets Douglas Sirk-style melodrama, all mixed up in a stripped-down homage to the artificiality of the Old Hollywood musical. Starring none other than outrĆ© Icelandic singer Bjƶrk (who apparently had a terrible time making it), this is deeply strange, and strangely compelling, in its story of a Czech immigrant whoās forced into increasingly dire straits as she tries to get the money for a medical procedure that will save her sonās vision.
The crying bit: Bjƶrk and company create such a compelling (though bleak) fantasy world that the movieās ultra-dark denouement hits hard.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Sounder (1972)
A family of sharecroppers in rural Louisiana, lead by Cicely Tyson and Paul Winfield, is tragically disrupted when Winfieldās Nathan Lee Morgan is arrested for having stolen a bit of food.
The crying bit: Sounder, the dog, is a relatively minor part of the film, and, though he does get injured, you neednāt fear any dog-related tragedies. This is one for which the tears really come when the family is reunited.
Where to stream: Prime Video, Peacock, Tubi
Beaches (1988)
Bette Midler has never been so schmaltzy as in this movie charting the ups and downs of her lifelong friendship with Barbara Hershey, beginning way back when Midlerās character is played by Mayim Bialik. Though history hasnāt come to recognize Beaches as an all-time classic, there were a couple of years during which the haunting strains of āWind Beneath My Wingsā were utterly inescapable. Be warned, though: I listened to this soundtrack on repeat around the time this first came on TV, and Iām pretty sure it made me gay.
The crying bit: You can see the death scene coming from all the way down the beach, but only the hardest heart isnāt going to feel a twinge when C.C. and Hillary watch one final sunset.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Love Story (1970)
Less a work of genius, perhaps, than a masterpiece of emotional manipulation, Love Story is a classic tearjerker in the finest tradition of the form. Love means never having to say youāre sorry, and I won't apologize for recommending this.
The crying bit: After weāve established the central coupleās meet-cute, opposites-attract relationship and marriage, weāre primed for tragedy when Oliver (Ryan OāNeal) learns that Jenny (Ali McGraw) is terminally ill, attempting to conceal the diagnosis from her (which was, apparently, a thing you could do circa 1970). Alas, this isnāt a movie about successful treatments and permanent remission.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Goodbye, Mr. Chips (1939)
A young suffragette (Greer Garson) breaks the stiff, stuffy, oh-so-British reserve of teacher Charles Edward Chipping (Robert Donat)
The crying bit: Following the death, in childbirth, of his beloved, Mr. Chips returns to the classroom, stiff upper lip fully starched. Itās clear heās lost not just his love, but also the joy in living sheād helped him discover.
Where to stream: Digital rental
If Beale Street Could Talk (2018)
Based on the James Baldwin novel and directed by Moonlightās Barry Jenkins, this is the tragic story of a young couple (played by KiKi Layne and Stephan James) torn apart by a false allegation and injustice.
The crying bit: Iām not sure that thereās a single moment here, and thatās to the non-linear movieās credit. Thereās a pervasive sense of sadness and injustice as weāre drawn deeply into the story of this couple. The most emotional moment is, perhaps, the moment near the end when Tish realizes that thereās no hope of undoing the injustice that landed Funny in jail.
Where to stream: Peacock, Starz, Digital rental
The Color Purple (1985)
Steven Spielberg directs Whoopi Goldberg as the abused Celie, separated from her beloved sister at a young age in rural Georgia of the early 20th century. Itās a better adaptation of Alice Walkerās acclaimed novel than it is often given credit for.
The crying bit: The greatest heartbreaks come closer to the beginning than the end. And, though there are tearful moments throughout, the real catharsis comes when we finally feel like things finally (finally) start looking up for Miss Celie and company. Youāre invited to cry at the sad moments and the joyous conclusion.
Where to stream: Tubi, Digital rental
Steel Magnolias (1989)
They used to call this sort of thing a āchick flick,ā as though the mere presence of women at the top of the cast list were enough to place a film in its own genre. Regardless, with the all-legend casting of Sally Field, Dolly Parton, Shirley MacLaine, Daryl Hannah, Olympia Dukakis, and Julia Roberts, this is the Avengers of movies set largely in a beauty salon.
The crying bit: The filmās death scene is gutting, but less so than Sally Fieldās graveside breakdown, both for its own emotive power and for her realization that sheās not alone. Somehow āTake a whack at Ouiser!ā is the filmās supreme moment of catharsis.
Where to stream: Digital rental
The Joy Luck Club (1993)
Another great film with women in the lead and a brilliant ensemble cast (including Ming-Na Wen, Rosalind Chao, Tamlyn Tomita, and Lauren Tom), The Joy Luck Club centers around a group of Chinese elders who gather to play Mahjong and trade stories that span generations.
The crying bit: There are plenty of emotional moments across the filmās many vignettes, but by far the most wrenching is the story of Suyuan Wooās escape from the Japanese invasion of China. Near death and at the end of her strength, sheās forced to abandon her twin daughters. The moment would, understandably, haunt Suuyan and color her relationship with her other daughter, June.
Where to stream: Hulu, Digital rental
Imitation of Life (1959)
Even if itās not flawless in its perspectives, Imitation of Life is as close to racial consciousness as Hollywood got in the 1950s, doing the original version of the film (from 1934) one better by shifting the focus away from single mother Lora Meredith (here played by Lana Turner) and toward Juanita Mooreās Annie Johnson and her light-skinned-to-the-point-of-passing daughter, Sarah Jane.
The crying bit: Their relationship having entirely broken down through the course of the film, mother and daughter never truly reconcile before Annieās untimely death. Itās the funeral, though, that clinches it, as Mahalia Jackson sings āTrouble of the Worldā while Sarah Jane falls on her motherās casket.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Stella Dallas (1937)
Barbara Stanwyck plays the titleās sassy mill workerās daughter, whose plans to better her own situation go consistently awry, leading to a deeply unhappy marriage. Eventually, she places all her hopes in her daughter, Laurel.
The crying bit: Circumstances lead Stella to believe that her daughterās only road to happiness is apart from the troubled mother. So, she forces Laurel away with cruel comments, then watches her daughterās marriage through a window, sadness and joy mingled in her expression.
Where to stream: Prime Video
Up (2009)
Belying the unfair reputation that cartoons once had as goofy kidsā stuff, the ability of a Pixar movie to reduce grown people to tears is legendary.
The crying bit: The montage, early in the film, depicting Carl Fredricksenās life with his late wife, Ellie, and their inability to ever save up enough money for their dream trip, is gutting. Gutting. (Later thereās a talking dog, which helps.)
Where to stream: Disney+, Digital rental
Toy Story 3 (2010)
Oh, hey, just Pixar again, here to make us cry over some damn computer generated toys.
The crying bit: You think itās the ending, but itās actually the moment when the toys, seemingly at the ends of their usefulness, make their peace with death (if living toys can truly ādieā) while on a conveyor belt leading to an incinerator. Yeah, itās also wistfully sad when Andy passes the toys along to Bonnie, saying goodbye to his childhood, but thatās like a gentle jab after getting hit over the head with a folding chair.
Where to stream: Disney+, Digital rental
The Fox and the Hound (1981)
The kindly Widow Tweed adopts an orphaned fox, Tod, while her neighbor, hunter Amos Blade, brings home a hound named Copper to be his new hunting dog. They become friends. Then they arenāt, and itās sad.
The crying bit: Oh, lord. We start out with a Bambi-esque death scene and, later, a heartbreaking abandonment. The emotional crux of the film is the bit about how Tod and Copper will āalways be friends forever.ā But fate has other ideas.
Where to stream: Disney+, Digital rental
Old Yeller (1957)
A young boy (Tommy Kirk) has a lovely, special bond with the titular Labrador Retriever in Texas of the late 1860s.
The crying bit: Letās just say that Old Yeller doesnāt fare terribly well here. They made this movie for kids, if you can believe it.
Where to stream: Disney+, Digital rental
The NeverEnding Story (1984)
Ten-year-old Bastian Bux is an outcast (translated from movie parlance: a reader) who finds himself drawn into his new book rather literally, as he's gradually pulled into the story of warrior Atreus, on a quest to save The Childlike Empress from "The Nothing" in the world of Fantasia.
The crying bit: Atreyu's faithful steed, Artax, is overcome in the Swamp of Sadness. It's a genuinely powerful emotional moment, representing a low point for both Bastion and Atreyu.
Where to stream: Digital rental
A Star Is Born (1954)
Yeah, yeah, yeah, the 2018 Lady Gaga version is sad, too, but this earlier version is the template (we can't call it the original, since it's the second of four takes, and not the same general plot). Judy Garland stars alongside James Mason as one half of a Hollywood power coupleāexcept that her star is in the ascendant, while his is in substance-dependent decline.
The crying bit: Upon her return to the stage following her husband's death, Vicki announces herself as "Mrs. Norman Maine." A little awkward, perhaps, to modern eyes, but still rather stirring in context. It's also rather poignant that this was meant to be Judy Garland's big comeback, but inexplicably died at the box office.
Where to stream: Tubi, Digital rental
The Fault in Our Stars (2014)
The John Green adaptation stars Shailene Woodley and Ansel Elgort as two teens who meet at a support group for cancer patients, before going on a whirlwind trip to Amsterdam to meet one of their favorite authors and find out why his last book doesn't really have an ending.
The crying bit: It's not entirely, nor unnecessarily, maudlin, but it's a movie about two kids with cancer, one of whom turns out to have a terminal diagnosis. Their first kiss is at the Anne Frank House. So, take your pick.
Where to stream: Disney+, Digital rental
Brief Encounter (1945)
Director David Lean is best known today for his epics: Lawrence of Arabia, A Passage to India, etc. But this early classic of his is every bit as impressive a work, even if the scale is much smaller. Laura is a respectable middle-class woman in a stable but dull marriage, while Alec is an idealistic doctor, also married with children. They start running into each other whenever Laura goes to a nearby town for a bit of shopping and, as their relationship and affections develop, each separation becomes more difficult.
The crying bit: It's what doesn't happen that breaks your heart here, as the final encounter between the two is interrupted and cut short.
Where to stream: Max, The Criterion Channel, Prime Video
Inside Out (2015)
The Disney/Pixar tear train has been running for a long timeāat least since Bambiāand Inside Out continues the tradition ably. Here we venture into the mind of 11-year-old Riley, processing her feelings about a family move via personifications of emotions with personalities of their own.
The crying bit: Bing Bong. Definitely Bing Bong. Oh, god, Bing Bong.
Where to stream: Disney+, Digital rental
The Iron Giant (1999)
In Cold War-era Maine, a giant alien robot becomes the focus of fear and paranoia from an American military who can only see his potential as a weapon.
The crying bit: Is is the moment when the Giant realizes that he can be what he chooses to be, saying āSupermanā as he sacrifices himself to save Hogarth and his other friends? Or the bit at the end when it appears that he didnāt die after all? I mean, itās definitely the first oneābut theyāre both incredibly emotional.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Titanic (1997)
Titanicās extraordinary popularity has bred a certain cynicism about the movie, with discussion turning on the relative buoyancy of floating doors and the camp appeal of Billy Zane. Thereās still a brilliantly constructed old-school Hollywood epic here, of the kind they truly donāt make anymore. In theaters in 1997, the final scenes were typically drowned out (sorry, pun intended) by the sounds of sobbing audiencesāand time hasnāt entirely dulled that power.
The crying bit: She says that sheāll never let go. But she absolutely lets go. But then they meet again on the ship where dreams are born, and they look so young and pretty, and everyone claps. (Thank god they skipped the original ending.)
Where to stream: Paramount+, Prime Video
Moulin Rouge! (2001)
Baz Luhrmannās over-the-top, La BohĆØme-inspired jukebox musical about star-crossād lovers in turn-of-the-20th-century Paris was never going to have an entirely happy ending.
The crying bit: Once you see the blood on the handkerchief, you know how itās going to end. Iām not sure that consumption was nearly so elegant a way to go as the movies suggest, but, in this case, thereās so much spectacle and distraction that weāve almost forgotten the foreshadowing, setting up an ending that still manages to come as a bit of a shock.
Where to stream: Hulu, Apple TV+
The Farewell (2019)
New York-based Chinese-American writer Billi (Awkwafina) learns from her parents that her grandmother, diagnosed with lung cancer, has just months to live. Theyāve decided not to tell her, and are concerned that their Americanized daughter wonāt keep the secret if she travels to China to spend time with Nai Nai during her final days.
The crying bit: Itās not a maudlin movie, despite the subject matter, but the night, near the end of the film, when Nai Nai encourages Bill to live life on her own terms, got me. There are also tears to be had at the filmās surprisingly upbeat ending. Itās also sadder because itās all true.
Where to stream: Max, Digital rental
The Laramie Project (2002)
A theatre company travels to Laramie, Wyoming to meet with and interview residents in the aftermath of the murder of Matthew Shepard. Based on the same-named play, the film is a curious hybrid of cinema, theater, and documentary with a cast of recognizable names.
The crying bit: Being the story of the very real Matthew Shepard, this one cuts deeper than the more explicitly fictional narratives, and might be a bit much if youāre looking for some gentle catharsis. Still, thereās no question that itās a worthwhile and important watchāthe moment when a local gay resident (played by Bill Irwin) relates his emotions following a parade in Shepardās honor hits particularly hard.
Where to stream: Max, Digital rental
Sophieās Choice (1982)
From the William Styron novel, we gradually learn the story of Polish immigrant Sophie Zawistowska, a Holocaust survivor who was faced with a particularly horrific choice, as the title suggests.
The crying bit: Near the end, we learn that Sophie had to choose between her two children upon entering Auschwitz.
Where to stream: Peacock, The Criterion Channel, Tubi, Crackle, Prime Video
Ordinary People (1980)
A family drama elevated by some truly excellent performances, Ordinary People deals with the impact of tragedy on a family led by an increasingly emotionally distant mother (Mary Tyler Moore).
The crying bit: There are plenty of emotional scenes in this drama, but thereās a moment during a therapy session when Timothy Huttonās Conrad expresses his feelings over the sailing accident that killed his brother, admitting that he considers having survived his greatest failure, that really smacked me in the face.
Where to stream: Max, Digital rental
Just Mercy (2019)
Michael B. Jordan plays the real-life attorney and activist Bryan Stevenson, here at the beginning of his career and representing the wrongfully convicted Walter McMillian (Jamie Foxx).
The crying bit: We know that the criminal justice system fails Black Americans more often than not, which makes the happy ending here (which, granted, only comes after McMillian serves multiple years on death row) a brief, but joyous moment.
Where to stream: Prime Video
Beasts of the Southern Wild (2012)
QuvenzhanƩ Wallis plays Hushpuppy, who constructs an elaborate fantasy world around her Louisiana Bayou community and her ailing father.
The crying bit: Confronting the much-feared aurochs, Hushpuppy saves the people of her island in the face of her fatherās death, at which point she gives him one hell of a funeral.
Where to stream: Digital rental
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